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Moving? 5 Tips To Help Your Kids Make New Friends

As you make the move to a new home, you know that leaving old friends behind can be hard on your kids. While they're likely excited about the move, it's normal for there to be some anxiety about being the new kid in town. Check out these tips for helping your little ones make lasting friendships in their new neighborhood.

Continue Old Activities

Were your kids active in sports in your old neighborhood? Did they love hanging out at the library? Were they part of any afterschool groups or clubs? Do your best to provide continuity of previous activities after your move. This can connect them with kids who have similar interests and provide them with things to talk about when they catch up with friends from their old home. Before doing this, check in with your kids to make sure the activities they've been engaging in are still enjoyable for them and that they'd like to continue doing them after the move.

Join a Social Group

Your kids aren't the only ones who need to socialize - you do too! Whether you join a running club, a book club, or take a class, meeting other people with similar interests is a great way to make family friends. When you make friends with people who lead similar lifestyles, both families will likely bond with one another. It can be a little scary to put yourself out there in a new town, but remember - you're leading by example and showing your kids that you can do hard things, too.

Check Out the Local Community Center

Local community centers have tons of activities for kids, from karate to open gyms to swimming lessons. Take a look at the calendar for the community center in your new town. Talk to your kids about the available activities, and see what interests them. This can be an inexpensive and fun way for your kids to get to know some new friends.

Host a Get-Together

Hosting a party or BBQ is a fun way for you to get to know your new neighbors while your kids get to know new friends. Be sure to set up plenty of things for the kids to do - a sprinkler to run through, a volleyball net, or a craft station for younger kids are all great ways to get little ones engaged and talking. While you socialize with parents, ask them about what activities their kids love in the area.

Talk to Their Teacher

Before you move, you'll register your child for school, and you'll probably know who their teacher is going to be. Reach out to the teacher or school representative to see if there's a homeroom or ambassador parent they can connect you with. You'll be able to chat with this parent about your anxieties and excitement about the move, and hopefully, you'll be able to have your child meet up with their child before they start school. Seeing a familiar face in the classroom can go a long way toward helping a kid feel at ease.

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